Lost: Prepare Your Child for the Possibility

Posted on Jan 25, 2013 by 1 Comment
Lost: Prepare Your Child for the Possibility

Have you spoken with your small child about what to do if he gets lost?

I think it is one of those scary but necessary conversations that families have – right up there with “Mom, do you have a cemetery plot?” While you certainly don’t want to scare your kids, it is important that they have some instructions to follow to help the situation end well.

Obviously they need to know the following information:

  • Name
  • Address
  • Home phone
  • Your cell phone

Your child will need some other skills, depending on how old he is. The most important thing is that he remains calm and confident.

Tell him never to leave the area or the store with anyone.

Finding a woman with children to help is the safest option if he can’t find a police officer, security guard, or store employee. Experts agree that a woman with children is the least intimidating and the least likely to harm your child.

Tell him to ask the person to call your mobile phone. If that person doesn’t have a cell phone or you don’t answer, have a backup plan such as calling on a landline or a second emergency contact.

If he is lost outside, make sure that he knows to stay in one place. People will be calling his name and it is important that he knows to answer them.

Finally, have a code word. If a stranger tells your child that you sent them to pick him up make sure that he asks the stranger for a code word and doesn’t go anywhere with anyone that doesn’t have it.

Practice what to do if he’s lost once in a while – make a game out of it. Finally, update the plan as your child grows and his ability to help himself changes.

Do you have a safety plan for your child?

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Marye Audet

Marye Audet is an author, freelance writer, and editor. As a work at home mom she has a unique perspective that encompasses the overwhelming deadlines and commitments of the professional woman as well as the constantly changing needs of a homeschooling mom with a large family. She is the author of one cook book and the creator of Restless Chipotle Media, a network consisting of two food based blogs, a blog for “women of a certain age”, a video site on Youtube, and upcoming blog on kitchen decor, and downloadable eBooks. Marye also is a freelance writer, editor, and book reviewer.

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  • Nick

    My son got lost once in a department store. We were looking all over for him when it was suddenly announced that I report to the Customer Service desk. Sure enough, there he was standing with the store manager. The fact that he had the forethought to do this never really registered with me until now. I consider myself lucky as opposed to the alternative outcomes.