When I learned I was pregnant with my second child, I chose not to make mention of it for a few months. My first child was only 13 months old, and I just wanted to experience “normal” life for a little longer before people started asking all the pregnancy-related questions, and eyeing my belly for signs of the bump.
Now with the Internet abuzz with rumors that Kate Middleton is expecting her second child, I almost feel sorry for her.
The Duchess received all kinds of attention when pregnant with Prince George and people are ready for more…but is 32-year-old Kate Middleton ready for all that again this soon? The rumors are based on a childhood friend’s claim that a sibling is on the way, but Kensington Palace has said Kate hasn’t talked to that friend in years.
I tend to believe Kensington Palace, because anyone who is a true friend and learned Kate was pregnant would share the joy but keep the news to themselves. But now with these statements, people are looking at Kate with a critical eye searching for “the” signs.
Is her face fuller? After all, her face looked fuller when she was expecting the Prince. Other rumors suggest she holds something in front of her stomach when she is out among people, but really what is she suppose to do with her purse or the flowers someone hands her?
So is she pregnant or not? Rumors say yes; Kensington Palace has said…that she hasn’t been in touch with that old childhood friend for years. They did not say that she isn’t pregnant. So that has stirred more speculation because they didn’t deny the rumors.
It leaves the royal watchers chomping at the bit, but along with them we’ll all have to wait and see. This isn’t the first time rumors have suggested baby number two was on the way. Remember that little slip William made when accepting a baby gift from a woman in New Zealand? He told that woman she may have to make another one soon for baby number two. But Kate wasn’t pregnant.
Even if she is expecting now, she may want to wait a little while before making an announcement. Let’s give her some space. After all, remember how sick she was the first time round?
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Back in March, an assistant manager at the Nanuet Barnes & Nobel told 22-year-old mom Shereen Matera that she would either have to cover up or leave the store if she planned to keep breastfeeding her five-month old son. Matera tried to calmly explain that the law in New York allows women to breastfeed in public, but the employee said the store had a different policy.
Matera went home where she ended up posting her experience on Facebook with the group Badass Breastfeeders of New Jersey. Members of the group were as upset Matera and the outrage spawned an organized nurse-in at the bookstore the following day.
This protest caught the attention of state Attorney General Eric T. Schneiderman who decided to look into the situation. For him it seemed to be an issue of women’s rights, and following months of deliberation, Schneiderman and Barnes & Noble came to a settlement which will result in some changes for the nationwide chain’s 42 stores in New York.
Barnes & Noble is now required to train its store workers on the state’s breastfeeding law which allows mothers to nurse in public. The stores will also be displaying the international symbol for breastfeeding at the store entrance, and they are donating $10,000 to a breastfeeding support group overseen by the Rockland Department of Health.
New York’s breastfeeding law has been around for 20 years, and according to Schneiderman, “All New York residents, including breastfeeding mothers, must be afforded equal protection under the law. No mother should endure harassment for breastfeeding her baby in public. There is one set of rules for everyone in New York, and I applaud Barnes & Noble for taking steps to ensure that moms are not harassed or discriminated against.”
Matera says she is pleased with the outcome, but says a simple apology would have been satisfactory.
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Contradicting information surrounds caffeine and pregnancy. Do you have to give it up or not? Actually that’s between you and your doctor.
My doctor suggested limiting my intake. In the UK, the NHS recommends limiting caffeine intake to 200mg a day which is about the equivalent to two mugs of instant coffee or 2-3 cups of tea. However, a study of 1,000 women in their first trimester showed a doubling of miscarriage when drinking that amount of caffeine per day.
Another study in BMC Medicine linked caffeine to lower birth weights; babies who are at a higher risk of both short- and long-term health problems. So what’s a mom-to-be to do? After looking at all the conflicting information, I decided to play it safe and give it up.
When I decided to cut caffeine, no one warned me about the symptoms like the headache that was so bad it sent me to the bathroom vomiting. A friend told me to sip a half cup of coffee and the headache went away. Instead of quitting cold turkey, I cut back a little each day. I started with a half a cup in the morning. When I felt a hint of the headache, I had another half cup.
I gradually reduced my half cups to quarter cups and eventually quit drinking coffee, tea, and other caffeinated beverages all together. I also became aware of the caffeine in painkillers, ice cream, chocolate, and other products.
If you plan to breastfeed, I’d say you might as well wean yourself off caffeine totally before the baby is born because babies don’t excrete caffeine at the same rate as adults, and too much caffeine can make the baby cranky and keep it awake.
In my book, anything that lessens the chance of a fussy, sleepless baby is worth trying and once you’re done breastfeeding, you can always enjoy a cup of coffee again.
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When I had my kids, my mother and mother-in-law were on the spot with meals. What a godsend!
Today, many people don’t live near family so friends step in to provide meals. When my girlfriend had her baby last year that was the case, and when I stopped in with another meal I saw a pile of casserole dishes waiting to be returned owners.
While that reflected the love of many, I thought about the extra work we had caused. She didn’t have to make the meals, but in her little kitchen the empty casserole dishes took up valuable counter space and were a constant reminder of something she needed to do. Return them.
Use Disposable Dishes: Since witnessing that collection of dishes piled on her counter, I’ve moved to using disposable containers that can go in the freezer when making meals for new moms. It eliminates clean up and removes the burden of trying to return all the dishes to the people who dropped them off.
Food Allergies and Preferences: Another thing to consider when making new mom meals is any food allergies, preferences, and restrictions. For instance, when making a meal for my girlfriend I knew not to include mushrooms if I wanted to keep her other children happy.
And if you don’t know the family well, be sure to ask about any food allergies. If a family has dairy issues, macaroni and cheese doesn’t work.
Along with this, if the new mom is breastfeeding, find out what foods her doctor has told her to avoid. For instance, my doctor told me to avoid tomatoes, chocolate, and spicy foods. With those kinds of restrictions in mind, I’ve made a mild chili and delivered it with a bottle of Red Hot to be added by those who want to add a little spice to their serving.
Call or Text Ahead: Don’t just pop in on the new mom. You certainly don’t want to risk waking her from a much needed catnap! Contact them first to see if it is okay to drop off a meal.
Along with bringing the meal, consider dropping off disposable utensils and plates so clean up is as easy as dumping everything into the trash. When you stop by with the meal, avoid the urge to stay and visit; remember those first couple of weeks are exhausting!
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Four years ago, Zack Francom’s school challenged each class to raise $86 for a fundraiser. That $86 was enough to purchase a wheelchair. For his part, Zack sold lemonade and cookies and once the challenge ended, Zack decided to keep his cleverly named Zack’s Shack in business.
Now at age 11 he has been able to provide more than 330 wheelchairs for people in underdeveloped countries like Guatemala where one wheelchair costs more than a year’s salary.
When I read about Zack’s story I was happy to see that somewhere in this country, a child could still have a lemonade stand and learn the lessons that go with it. He lives in Provo, Utah, and runs his lemonade stand one weekend each year and then donates the money to LDS Philanthropies. In turn, with Zack running this charitable lemonade stand, he is teaching lessons to society, too.
As a kid, he could have used the money he made to buy a new gaming platform, a bike, or some other thing to entertain himself. Instead, he is looking at it as a way to help other people. He told a local news station, “I know people in wheelchairs, and it’s sad when they don’t have one.”
Zack has been operating the Zack Shack for four years now. He says, “My goal is to fly around the world someday and hand out the wheelchairs.” In some circles he is nicknamed “the wheelchair wonder boy”. I say that in any circle, this kid offers a good example of not only thinking of others but as someone who actively helps others.
And behind that kid are parents who have not only helped him see the value of living like this, but help provide the ingredients for the lemonade and cookies he sells. Mom and Zack make the cookies and lemonade together and Dad helps set up the stand.
Parents make a difference and raise kids who do, too.
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Little Megan Hui is a miracle baby. She was born last February and is now a healthy 18-week-old little girl.
She’s a miracle, because her mother suffered a miscarriage six weeks into the pregnancy. Then following the miscarriage, she was given abortion drugs to help clear out her uterus and as a precautionary method to avoid infection. Then 10 days later she went back to the hospital to have a surgical procedure to clear remaining blot clots that could be life threatening.
According to Megan’s 31-year-old mom, Michelle, the doctor said, “You are not going to believe it, we’ve got a heartbeat.” Can you imagine the roller coaster of emotions to she went through from losing her baby, to finding out she was still pregnant?
It turns out the Megan was a twin. Her mom had lost a baby after six weeks of pregnancy, and didn’t know that she was actually carrying two babies. She even underwent 5 different scans that confirmed she had lost the baby, and yet for some reason, little Megan survived the abortion drugs. I count that a miracle!
Michelle Hui went in to have the surgical procedure to have the potentially dangerous blood clots in her uterus removed. It was at this time that a scan picked up a faint heartbeat.
The medical team decided that since the baby had survived so much already that Michelle should continue her pregnancy. They think that perhaps the blood clots caused shadows that hid the surviving fetus, but however it happened, the result is that a healthy baby girl who weighed six pounds at birth.
She joins her older sister Mya, who is four, and her brother, Noah, who is two.
It turns out that I’m not the only one who thinks Megan is a miracle. Her story is considered extraordinary enough to be written up in medical journals and the doctors said it was a “blessing.” I agree!
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Back in March, Graco recalled over 400,000 car seats bringing the number of recalled seats to more than 4 million due to faulty buckles which could make it difficult to remove a child from the seat.
Now they are expanding that recall by another 1.9 million car seats that include some infant and toddler models. The expanded recall follows a five-month squabble with the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration and Graco in which Graco had argued that infant seats are different than toddler models because adults can remove the whole seat during an emergency, rather than releasing the buckle.
Again those who own the recalled seats are supposed to contract Graco for a free replacement harness.
The Problem with the Buckles
The reason behind these recalls is that the buckles can get gummed up by food and drinks which make them sticky. This makes it difficult to remove children, and in some cases parents had to actually cut the harnesses to get their children free of the seat. The concern is that this increases the risk of injury in emergencies.
Newly Recalled Graco Car Seats
The original recall came about from Graco after 80 complaints were filed with the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration. Those seats were sold between 2009 and 2013. The newly recalled car seats were manufactured from 2012 to 2014.
Infant Models and Expanded Recall Production Dates:
Toddler Models and Expanded Recall Production Dates:
To get your replacement harness, contact Graco at 1-800-345-4109 between 8 a.m. and 5 p.m. EDT Monday through Friday. Graco says parents can still use car seats while waiting for the replacement harness.
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Naming our babies is a personal decision that affects the lives of our children. That name we choose is the one they are either blessed or stuck with.
In many countries there are actually lists of banned names and some of them for good reason, but one 10-year-old in Iceland named Harriet Cardew and her 12-year-old brother, Duncan, were recently denied passport renewal because their names are banned in that country.
Because their names are considered illegal they can’t get their passports.
I don’t know about you, but this raised a couple of questions on my part. First of all, why would a name like Harriet or Duncan be banned? It’s not like it’s Harrynet, Stinky Head, or some absurd symbol or product name. Plus, if the parents were renewing their passports that means they had already been issued a passport…with the names Harriet and Duncan. Turns out that’s not the case.
List of Approved Baby Names
Iceland has a list of approved Nordic names that consists of 1,853 female and 1,712 boy names and according to their laws, unless both parents are foreign born, the parents must submit their name choice to the National Registry for approval within 6 months of the baby’s birth.
One of the requirements is that the name includes an “Icelandic grammatical ending.” Neither Harriet or Duncan does that. According to their father, Tristan Cardew they, “can’t be conjugated in Icelandic.”
The Cardew family has four children all together. Two of them were born in France, so their names aren’t under question. However, Harriet and her 12-year-old brother Duncan were born in Iceland and their parents did not have their names approved.
Harriet and Duncan’s father is from England, but their mother is from Iceland. The parents have appealed for emergency passports from the British Embassy. In the meantime, their family trip is on hold. It turns out that, up until now, the kids traveled under the acceptable Nordic Stúlka and Drengur Cardew which are the words for “girl” and “boy” Cardew.
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The blockbuster Disney movie, Frozen, exploded in popularity last year. Kids of all ages know all the words to “Let it Go,” and Frozen merchandise still flies off the shelves.
But there’s a new Frozen phenomenon that I didn’t see coming that reaches into the adult generation, and even into future generations. Frozen- themed baby showers and nurseries are on the rise, and we’re seeing a hot new baby name trend of Frozen-inspired baby names.
Popular Frozen Baby Names
I can see why people would use the theme for baby showers and nurseries, but I have to admit I wouldn’t think of naming my kids after an animated character.
However, when I heard about this, the two sisters who star in the film, Anna and Elsa, came to mind. I like both those names and they did rise in popularity among baby girl names over the last year. Trending Frozen-inspired baby boy names include Hans, Kristoff, Sven, and Olaf.
Meaning of Frozen-Inspired Baby Names
When I chose names for my kids, I looked at the meaning behind the names, too. So while these trending baby names bring to mind favorite Frozen characters, it’s interesting to see what they mean. When I checked it out, I found something that surprised me.
So what surprised me about the meanings behind the names is that half of them are related to belief in God. I’m not saying that’s a bad thing, I’m just saying that in today’s day it is just surprising.
The good thing is the names will have meaning even after the movie’s popularity fades and it joins other classic favorites as a thing of the past.
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